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That’s energy and space that he can’t and won’t channel into you in positive ways. He doesn’t consistently spend time with his children.You also end up keeping company with someone who is aloof, moody, defensive and/or crabby. If your separated man isn’t seeing much of his kids, this should be seen as a warning, not a “bonus” (cause it’s more time spent with you, right? One reason he’s not parenting could be because he and his wife are disagreeing over child custody and access.In fact, I pity any man who dated me when I was separated; I was messed up, and didn’t even know it!I also hasten to add that not separated man is disastrous to date – and should be considered as a unique individual.), he bolts and uses HER separated status as the excuse. The only thing she can do – SHE breaks it off with him (for now). Because it’s never what he wanted, not for the long haul anyhow. .” Getting involved with a separated man usually comes with a host of issues and complications that spell drama, stress and heartache to a woman.
When he minimizes or avoids the topic, however, it suggests that either he has not yet worked through all the stages of grief (denial, anger, bargaining, depression, acceptance); or, he hasn’t yet hashed through the legalities (or possibly even begun). He can’t just flick it off his shoulder as he would a bug. Anger is a normal and healthy phase for your separated man to go through.
Maybe she’s maliciously blocking the kids from seeing him, maybe she has excellent reason to block him, maybe a court date (or five) lies ahead in his future.
Whatever the case may be, these kinds of circumstances are extremely stressful for him, which will inevitably ripple into your relationship together in some way(s).
As a counter measure, many men deceptively list their marital status as divorced instead of separated in order to avoid this inevitable kiss of death.
Separated women, however, play by a much different set of rules.