Dating a girl four years older
And then you learn that the same year you graduated college, she was getting a divorce from a marriage of 15 years with two beautiful children that she would never trade for the world.Dating someone older — whether you’re two or three years her junior or she is entering cougar territory and is closer in age to your mother—certainly can work (look at Susan Sarandon, Kate Hudson and Halle Berry).If he is close to his mother, an older woman will not get around his mother not being comfortable with the older woman and younger man (her son) issue.There is no getting around that and only time will soothe his mother’s feelings about you and him.Being the older, wiser man is a power trip for him. It's the emotional version of going from breast buds to boobs! And that's all about , the said power trip he is getting off on should be overt. Defending your relationship will frequently ruin your friendships.
You might feel like Joan Jett when he picks you up in his Seville outside the high school in front of all your friends, but he is being mercilessly mocked by all of the women in his life for dating a 14-year-old. It's not super-sweet and romantic of him when he buys you beer and/or gets you a fake.
The question of age has always been an issue of sort.
Age gap will always be a topic of interest, especially for those who will have the experience of falling for someone who may be younger or older by a significant margin.
This means that he may not have learned the best way to maintain good communication, how / when to compromise for the sake of the relationship, and other important skills that a couple needs to have a successful relationship.
In this case, it is important that the older, more experienced woman is able to pick and choose which battles to fight when issues arise. In fact, I played football and some cricket, and most weekends I was out with my team mates having a great time.