Dating man test woman
Shit tests are always meant to provoke a response in a man but the source of the problem is always an inner conflict that I haven’t acknowledged yet. Very often, women do not know what we are feeling in the moment. Especially now that we have a culture that tries to tell us we are certain ways or are supposed to reject certain things, we feel inadequate or “wrong” when we feel something different.That creates an inner conflict between what we are experiencing and what we think we should be experiencing.The solution, of course, is for her to understand her body chemistry better, her moods, her feelings and take personal responsibility for handling them.But even still, our emotions sometimes are several leaps ahead of our minds. Women need to reject the current cultural teachings that tell us that men are the cause of all our problems, that tell us to reject our femininity and suppress our quirks.It is truly not the man’s problem that she has these inner conflicts.They are a result of our biology clashing with culture, the misinformation spread to women and it is foremost a result of our personal hormonal cocktail.
Because the shit test is a trap to say, “Can I count on you?You will be blamed for causing it and you will be made responsible for repairing it.“Do I look fat? And if your “no” is not convincing enough to obliterate her feeling, she will be angry at you for lying. The only way to respond to a shit test is to dismiss it or make a joke as if it’s ridiculous, but not to answer it either way. Followed by escalating sexually to get her turned on.This also shows her the attention and confirmation of affection she is likely seeking more than an answer.Another woman might lust after one man, be attracted to a second, and feel comfortable and attached to her partner only.These differences in who we lust after, are attracted to, and feel an attachment towards, arise because each feeling has an independent origin.